PASTORAL GRACE.........Easily frustrated by 'Innocent looking' wrong Wives!



Characteristics of an enemy of destiny... wives:

1. You married them as born-again Sisters, while they are not.
2. They will do everything to hide their identity from unsuspecting husbands.
4. They will compete with you in all things - and follow you everywhere. 
5. She will start attacking your prayer life with different tactics till it goes down.
6. Then your finances, to render you powerless and vulnerable.


I perceive that God has designed it that men and women who will serve Him should pass through different spiritual wilderness experiences. When we talk about Wilderness experience, we mean a difficult and tough situation that requires spiritual depth to resolve. 

It always unsettles the average Pastor when he has done all he is expected to do and nothing seems to be happening.  Instead of things moving up, it is rather moving in the opposite direction. 

Wilderness is a time, when situations in the life of a man, force him to amend his thoughts and ways. It is a time when the unexpected happens.  It could be hard and difficult times that refuse to go away. It is a situation that forces children of God to study the bible and pray for a way out of it.

The tough challenges of this 'School of adversity' is expected to draw the man or woman closer to God and cause him to learn how to persevere and pray fervently until victory is achieved.

The problem now is that the wilderness is full of enemies, the Amelekites, the Perezites, The Jebusites, and the giants who have refused to let the children of God go. One such enemy confronting existing and upcoming ministers of God today is the error of marrying beautiful and innocent-looking ladies, without checking their spiritual status.  In other words, the man marries a woman, who is in darkness - a marine agent or a witch.

Darkness and Light cannot live together

Since darkness and light cannot live together, either darkness overcomes the light, or the light overcomes darkness. In this write-up, we try to present the challenges Pastor and Ministers of God are facing in the area of marriage.  

Many a vibrant Pastor has been brought low by their wives, who are in darkness and who are not even willing to reject the devil and be delivered.  Countless Pastors have lost their original calling to the alter of marriage, having only a fake copy of their original calling.  

The challenges of fulfilling destiny requires that a man or woman diligently seeks to know the spiritual statute of his or her future partner.  Once a wrong woman has been married and brought home, an otherwise glorious destiny could be truncated. 

This topic may not interest some people, but it is a reality and many men of God, sons and daughters of God are struggling under the bondage of the marine agent they married as husband or wife.  The marine kingdom and other kingdoms are real.

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Becoming a Prayer Warrior
This is an epic destiny recovery battle, that turns the man or Pastor into a Prayer warrior.  This is one of the problems you face in life that only God can help you out with. A higher Prophet, with enormous grace, can be of great help to you. You must embrace holiness and pray without season

So, the story is to encourage those suffering under this yoke that there there is hope for their freedom and to the spinster and bachelors to be careful, about who they marry.  The battle takes time because you can never imagine you are already in the belly of a fish like Jonah.  Then with time and prayers, you become aware and then the battle for your freedom begins.

The error is so grievous that when you marry the daughter of Satan, the devil has unfettered access to you. It becomes a tragedy that a man called by God to destroy the works of Satan, ends up marrying the daughter of Satan as his wife, such a Pastor will suffer long in the wilderness of life.

The choice of a life partner can be an icebreaker that could make or breaking the man. It can determine how far and successful the man will go in life. If you get it right, God applauds you with open heavens and blessings (Prov18:22), if otherwise,  the heaven closes over you and the consequences can be painful and frustrating.


Let me start by advising young men who are in love with a sister they intend to marry to look beyond the beauty, but rather ask God to reveal the spiritual position of the lady and her parents to you before you propose to her.

It is not enough for her to be intelligent, well educated and cultured. Beauty is not the first qualification for a woman of God, it is her love for God and her fear of the Lord.  When God reveals the spiritual position of her parents to be in Christ, then you can add her beauty and other qualities as genuine. A lion can never give birth to an Eagle...NO! 

The daughter of a witch can say she is spirit filled, meanwhile, her mother has already initiated her into darkness. This family inquiry as well as the lady's spiritual position are prayerfully made.  It's important for the future of your career, the marriage and the children that will be born to the marriage.

If this inquiry is not made or God simply decides not to answer you, then you don't have a bride yet.

To say that you love her so much as to ignore this simple spiritual inquiry is foolishness. If you become obsessed by her beauty and outward commitment to the things of God in your local church and ignore to inquire about her parents, don't be surprised if you discover later that your innocent-looking girl is the daughter of an occultic grand master, and her mother, a witch Queen-mother - terrible which time, it is too late to make amends.

By the time you have married her, you know you have broken the hedge, get ready for battle, for the serpent will surely bite.  She will be a thorn on your flesh till God delivers you from their network.

The target of the Devil
There are two categories of servants of God the enemy target with his daughters from the water. These are: 

1. People with the oil of God on their heads, who are not yet aware. 
2. The young and unmarried  Pastors, Ministers and evangelists in churches who are getting ready to enter the ministry. 

Purpose and Plan of Satan
The primary purpose of Satan and the agent sent on the assignment are:

1. The first plot is to hold the man down, divert his attention from the work of God into other areas of life and gradually kill his vision.

2. Take away his means of livelihood (Employment or business) and ensure money does not flow into his account from anywhere. When that happens, power has been wrestled from him at home.

3. Make sure his Ministry never see the light of day. If it does, do everything possible to close it down. 

4. If he insists on ministry, manipulate him into a fake Prophet, who will initiate him into the marine kingdom and give him fake power.

5. When the above fails, then that Pastor is in for endless spiritual battles meant to punish him and if possible destroy him.


It is a living spiritual kingdom established by Satan when he was driven down from heaven. The marine Kingdom initiates and supports every plan to turn man away from God in disobedience.

Because the spiritual controls the physical, they are more powerful than any natural man’s imaginations and thoughts.  They have spiritual beings - kings and queens presiding inside the water. On earth here, they have their agents everywhere, who gather every night to discuss the kingdom of Satan and how to make the people commit more sin and rebel against God to their destruction.

These agents live amongst us, attend churches, and some even preach the gospel of Jesus Christ, but inwardly, they are agents doing the agenda of their master the devil. 

They have spiritual eyes that can see into the spirit realm at any time to know what will happen and with the secrets they have, its easy for them to steal or divert the blessings of people. 

In the world today, the marine kingdom is responsible for 70 – 80% of the troubles of man.  From divorce, pornography, bizarre nakedness, and prostitution are caused by marine spirits. Today, the marine spirit tell people to walk naked on the beach. They have devised new methods to initiate young people into prostitution through online registers. They tell people to sleep around, irrespective of what the word of God says. The aim is to ruin the youths and society in general. 

In the Western world, their members manufacture cosmetics, jewelries, bangles, cosmetics,  sex toys, artificial Virginia, cream for enlargement of pennis, sexually motivating drugs and so on. 

There are several marine spirits (demons) which could possess a man and use him/her to achieve the purposes of satan.  Some of these include:

1.Celibate marine 
2.Marine Jezebel
3.Marine witchcraft
4.Leviathan spirit

Let me discuss a little about some of these spirits.

Celibate marine spirit – These are spirits that operate in the lives of marine agents who are consecrated to the work of satan and to wickedness.  They have no interest in getting married, but if they get married, they do not want to have children. Their wives cannot enjoy the marriage and they will soon leave or get killed.   This spirit operates in the lives of most Territorial strongmen of Satan.

Marine Jezebel spirit – operate in both male and female. They are more active in their female members.  Such women are usually fashion conscious, rebellious and aggressive. They seek to control and dominate their husband and will not stop till they achieve their purpose.

Leviathan Spirit – This is a brutal marine spirit responsible for mass killing.  People possessed by this spirit are usually filled with suicidal thoughts.  They walk alone when they are planning evil so that no one will get to know them and then try to discourage them. When you read that a boy shot 15 of his classmates, Leviathan spirit had possessed him.  This is the spirit that possesses a young man and cause him to kill an unfaithful lover, her mother and her brother all at once for the offence of the girl. 

Marine Witchcraft spirit – This is the main spirit that operates in the agents sent from the water as wives.  They operate like mother witches. They are subtle, yet deadly. They have the power to leave their body into the water (spirit) at any time to do evil.

How the Marine Kingdom Execute their Plan:

The devil hates anyone who could be a threat to his kingdom. So, the plan to arrested an anointed servant of God, even before he enters the ministry is one of the strategic weapons of Satan against the Church.

The devil will present innocent-looking ladies from the water to a young man committed to serving God, or to a young unmarried Pastor.  These young ladies operate with a high level of secrecy, patience and deception.
They would normally have a good education and appear well cultured, obedient and humble. They pretend to be born again to win the heart of the man and prepare the ground for his downfall.  The majority of them also have a wealthy family background. 

They come lovely at the beginning with the air of a spirit-filled born-again daughter of God who cannot hurt a fly. She would not be the flashy girl that wears trousers, or make-up excessively; No, she would present herself as that committed sister, a soul winner and a worthy labourer in the vineyard of the Lord, and the Pastor would, unfortunately, accept all these fake reports as true. 

So, she is seen as an ideal wife for a man of God. The marriage is quickly arranged and consummated.  From my experience, 90% of these delicate marriages are made when the men are not deep in God, though they are born-again, so adequate spiritual investigations are not carried out.

The devil always plans it to be so and that's why it is important that you know your Purpose before marriage. If you know you are called to serve God, then you are very careful about the lady you take her hands in marriage. Purpose before marriage is very important and helpful.

Signs that you are in Strange Wife Bondage:

1. When you discover that shortly after your marriage, things began to fall apart for you. Things that were easy before that time are no longer easy.

2. When you lose your means of livelihood shortly after your wedding, say within two years after your marriage.

3. When your wife does not like to have any of your relations living with you or around you.

4. When your wife finds it easy to relate with men instead of women. She is comfortable with male friends in the office and in the compound as though there is nothing to worry about. You should be concerned.

5. When your wife joins you in every business endeavour you venture into, whether she understands the business or not, as though both of you are in competition

6. When your wife tells you she will not like to have more than  3(Three) children. She would normally have no reason for that decision, except to live a vibrant life.  Many of the Marine agents would stop at three, especially those called covenanted into the kingdom early in life and they are queens.

8. When there is barrenness in marriage for five or more years and it does not bother your wife and her family. 

9. When your effort to succeed in your career or business is always doubted by your wife. She will join hands with you in the business, and within few months, the business will begin to fluctuate and nose-dive without remedy.

10. When the businesses you do together with her fail always and then she will turn to blame you for the failure.  Also, when your wife is happy to be the "breadwinner".  When she believes or acts as though her income is sufficient for the family - then the man is in real trouble!

13. When your wife keeps asking whether your new ideas and efforts will yield any positive results.  They will always cast aspersion on your efforts subtly, even as they will decree in the spirit that none of your efforts should succeed.

14. When your wife suggests you should focus on business or career instead of ministry, especially when you have confirmed by the mouth of several men of God and Prophets that you have a call of God upon your life.

15. When in ministry and your wife is continually doubting your Calling just because the church has only a few members.

16. When you find it very difficult to obtain help from known and unknown sources. When favour is completely hard to come bye.  Usually, she will come in to support you financially and she is happy to do that. 

When you see such in your marriage, you are in trouble as the man of the house or the Pastor or Prophet. You are marrying a woman, who is stronger than you in spirit.  You must arise and fight the spiritual battle of your life, else.....your destiny will be swallowed by the serpent in the house, God forbid it for you.

17. When you are in ministry and your wife continues in her old church.
Action to Take
This is a serious problem facing Pastors and vibrant men of God today. It is capable of wasting the entire effort of the Pastor and sending him to hell fire. These women are destiny hunters who SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO HAVE THEIR WAY. We should not allow agents of Satan to have their way in our lives and families.

The battle usually takes years before victory begins to show forth.  You have to resist the conditions the devil will want to place you.  In real life, you the child of God will want to love your wife as the bible has instructed us, not knowing that you are marrying the enemy of your calling and destiny.

One of the things the Lord would always do for His servants is HELP.  When the battles become tough when family and friends have deserted you, thinking you are a failure, the Lord will start taking the evil men fighting you AWAY, one after the other, so you can have peace.

When the Lord arrests the arrowhead of the satanic network fighting you, the battle will change. When the Pastor is about to be completely delivered, the battle becomes very brutal, and the devil increases the powers of his agents to frighten you, but with God, you are a victor. 

Thank God for our Saviour Jesus Christ who conquered Satan and handed victory to us.  Some people desert will be their husbands, wife or even children, other people could be something entirely different.  The most important factor to freedom from the troubles of life is God and believing in His Word and applying it.  The Lord God Almighty will give you the keys to your freedom as you commit your whole life to Him, believe His Word obey and apply them. 


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