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MANY WAYS TO BOND AND GLOW.........That help couples Understand themselves!

Closeness and longevity in marriage sometimes arises from couples staying IN CLOSE TOUCH PHYSICALLY AND SPIRITUALLY. The influence of work, business and family on young couples can be enormous.  This is why it is recommended that at the first five years after marriage, couples should stay together and build their home.

This is a key period for many marriages and so the influence of friends and relations should be minimized, and this is best guaranteed when the two people are staying together, waking up together and going to work or business together.

Next to living together is relaxing together.  This helps bonding and couples adopt their options.  Some plan to go to work late on Fridays, so that while other people are rushing to the office in the morning, they are relaxing at home and having good times, others spend Saturday together, while many people make Sunday after church service exclusively for themselves.

Helping each other is a major peace building strategy for couples of all ages.  You must realize your partner is one with you and your life is mutually linked.  The man cannot be happy, while the woman is sad and unhappy...It cannot work.

Finding time to relax together always, even after the children has come is highly recommended for young and old couples.  If the practice to followed for long time, the couples begins to see the partner as part of himself in the real sense of the world.

I will suggest that until realization is reached, the relationship needs time to bond the more.  The husband should see the wife is part of himself, an  almost indispensable part of him. The wife should begin to see the husband as a special gift, the only one she has and will have, and so walk in that understanding.

Whenever the couples graduate to this level of understanding, love has birthed in their midst, and you will begin to see each of them taking steps to protect their marriage and home from external influence.

I have deliberately down-played work schedules and challenges like that on marriage, especially on newly wed because family should be first before business or career.  This is not to say that couple should be careless with their career after wedding, but a greedy pursuit of work and business leaves a blow on the marriage in the years to come.

The consequence of pursuit of money at the expense of family is that long after you have achieved your goals...there will be no family to enjoy it with you.  Think about that.

This is probably why my study found out that couples in their middle or old ages spend more time together.  Could it be why some old couples are almost inseparable, not by their children, friends or economic slow-down.

Many young couples agree that spending time together does wonders to their love life, but find it difficult to do.

Lets do what is right, especially that will build up the home.

Friends, Jesus is coming soon. Repent  for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.

Believe the word of God and His Son Jesus Christ, and accept Him as Lord and Saviour of your life.  He will give you a new life, victory and eternal life.
Will you accept Him today?

Say this Prayer: 
Lord Jesus I come to you as a sinner.
I am sorry for my sins, forgive me.
I believe you died for my sins, and was raised for my justification. 
Come into my heart be my Lord and Saviour, 
Give me the grace to serve You in truth and spirit. 
Thank You for saving my soul - I am born again!

His grace be with you all. 


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