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WOMEN, SISTERS.......Consider these Important requirements of Marriage!


Christian marriage is ever blessed!

Christian marriage as it is in the bible may appear too strict for the youth of these days, because of the new world order of FREEDOM and women empowerment being executed with zeal across the world.

Human wisdom is replacing many important concepts of marriage, take for instance the new ruling in India where adultery is no longer a crime. The freedom in today's environment has almost completely destroyed what used to be a christian marriage.

The marriage ordained by God has rules and conditions which both parties will have to strictly obey and then enter a marriage that will hopefully last a life time.  There is nothing in this world that can compare to a happy and Godly family.  

More than any other time in history, a young man or woman wishing to get married must ensure the person he/she is marrying is ready for marriage. Being ready means that you are familiar with the requirements of scripture for marriage, which you should politely share with your partner and meditate on till your inner man is saturated with the word.

Both of you, intending couples should study these scriptures until you see yourselves behaving differently... more humble, understanding, caring, truth and honesty, loving the Lord and enthroning Him Lord etc. The moment you understand the requirements, you will see the responsibilities that marriages places on you.

The second test is that of spiritual status of your partner.  
You should who your spouse is in the spirit before you conclude the marriage.  The spiritual status of your spouse should not be assumed or taken for granted.  Jesus said it is not everyone calling me Lord, Lord will enter the kingdom of heaven.  It is only those that do the will of my Father in heaven.

It is not everyone you meet in the church are born again.  Everyone in the church are not even Christians, there are many agents of Satan in the church, singing and praising the Lord.  They belong to secret societies and still they are fervent in attending every church activity.  So, make sure the guy or lady is not in darkness before you marry, otherwise, your salvation and eternity in heaven is in danger.

Go to God in prayer, ask the Holy Spirit to reveal the spiritual status of your proposed spouse to you.  If you can observe some days of fasting and praying, it's worth it, but I can assure you that this one of the inquiries the Holy Spirit will be glad to answer as soon as possible.

Do not say the guy is cool, he cannot be an occultist. We have seen many of them today, very innocent looking guys and ladies, workers in the church, yet they are agents of darkness, married in the water.  These are agents of Queen of the Coast, with Jezebel spirit who know how to quench the fire of God in a believer after marriage.  

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It is better you are single than marrying an agent of darkness. 

No matter how caring a woman or man may be, if he or she is in darkness, there is problem. He or she is an enemy of your calling, though she does not hate you.  She will frustrate every spiritual move you make, until the fire of God in that life goes out.  A spouse in darkness is an enemy of light and so will hardly support your heavenly agenda. They are the powers behind lukewarmness in the life of believers...

Beloved, these few matters I mention above should be considered strongly by those wishing to get into marriage.  Ignorance is not an excuse in law.  So many men has been introduced to different perversions by their wives, covenanting them to the Queen of the Coast.  

If you marry an unbelieving person today, get ready for all kind of sexual perversions which could lead you into worshiping the Queen of the Coast and water demons all in the name of sex in marriage.  The marriage ordained by God is a holy matrimony under Christ, not under Lucifer or Queen of the Coast.

The society is bad today because of the kind of marriages we have in society.  The devil has done so much havoc on good marriages, using poverty and doctrines of Satan to fight them.  Most of the children from confused homes are also confused about marriage.

All the Ten Keys to happy marriage, 50 keys to happy home has no meaning once you miss the point from the beginning.  I don't know about you, but my bible say God hates Divorce and no one that wants to see God can afford to do what God hates.  

You have to endure whatever pains you meet in marriage with love, forgiving and forbearing all offences for the sake of heaven.  The last time I check on marriage in the bible, God's word remaineth the same that God hates Divorce!

Other Traps of the Devil include the following:

  • The devil want you to be married and still keep your old friends and acquaintances - which is a doorway to your eventual divorce.

  • The devil deceive some sisters not to be submissive and loyal to their husbands, thereby denying them of the natural love of such men, which would have made them happy in their home.
  • The devil want you to be married and still share your emotional issues with your friends instead of your spouse. The devil want you to be married and yet be lusting after other women, girls big and small - which is not the will of God.
  • The enemy wants you to be married and yet go back to your mother for advice all the time, instead of discussing and agreeing things with your spouse.
  • The devil does not want our ladies to know that they can easily become the 'mother' of their husbands with a heart and attitude of love towards them. Ladies used to ask me if that is ever possible and my answer is YES.  
  • If you prove to be a destiny helper to your husband, you have identified his calling in life and you are supporting him to succeed in his calling or profession, you will soon replace the mother in his heart and he will soon see only one woman in his life and that woman is you...
  • The  devil does not want the sisters to know that no man outside your marriage can love you better.  There are marriages from God, and the devil use to trouble such marriages with all kind os tests and trials, but the couple must know it is the devil and resist himThe devil want our sister to continue to look for favour from men after their marriage...NO.  
  • No more free lunch, somebody giving you lift from your house to your office and even dropping you off in the evening...You are opening your marriage for the devil to devour. Know you are now a married woman, pay for your transportation to and from work.Every unneccessary intimacy with any other man or woman outside of your spouce should STOP for good, otherwise, it is from these friends and old friends the devil will pull down the marriage
  • Let no one tempt the devil, he is smarter than you.  Do not toy with sin, no matter how small and if you discover you have any kind of addiction before marriage, I counsel you to seek deliverance.  Don't marry with an addiction in your life, the marriage is in danger. 
  • Whether the addiction is smoking, drinking, womanizing, drugs, pornography, stealing, fighting etc, please seek deliverance before you get married.  Seek deliverance or better still write to us and I can assure you that our prayer here will avail much for you by His grace.  Don't cover  up any sin - confess it and forsake the same and the Lord will show you mercy.


The bible says what God has joined together, let no man put asunder.  The question is who joined you together in marriage - for those planning to get married, who is joining you together?  Is it God, which means Love or is it Lust, Money and Greed, Is it your parents? 

Are you getting married because you want to escape poverty or family trouble in your parents house? Are you getting married to him because he has money, wealth or family inheritance?  Are you getting married because you love children and the Mr right is nowhere to be found, you decided to help God by getting pregnant for a strange man? Make sure you are getting married for the right reasons.  You are ready for marriage, you love the person, God's approval has been sought and obtained etc.  Remember, the way you make your bed is how you will lie on it.

Friends, a believer in the Lord  should be a man or woman of broken spirit, meek and humble, hungry for righteousness, merciful and pure in heart.  You are patient, loving and full of joy always.  You are the salt and the light of the world to shine forth the truth in the word of God.  

You are free from all hypocrisy, all lust and all selfishness.  You are a peace loving man or woman of God, therefore be patient and prayerfully wait for the right person for you.

Don't think you can marry any body and live happily with that person.  There are thousands of men or woman, but only one is yours. The others  cannot manager your strict and disciplined lifestyle, so be patient.

When the issue of marriage or any other matter become difficult, please encourage yourself in the Lord as King David did, when they took away everything he had, including wives and children.  He remembered the goodness of God to him in the years gone...and the Lord said PURSUE THEM...FOR YOU WILL SURELY OVERTAKE THEM AND RECOVER ALL!

Friends, Jesus Christ is coming soon.  Prepare to meet your Lord and Saviour clothed with spotless garment. 

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