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ADULTERY IN MARRIAGE................Know why the 'Mighty' are Falling


Many women cry bitterly when they suddenly discover they have fallen to cunning men and compromise their vow before God to be faithful to their spouse.

Many married people know how hard it is to rebuild trust destroyed through infidelity.  It is very hard for that your lovely husband to truely trust you again, when he discovers that you are cheating on him.  The matter is made worse if the woman continues in that wicked path after the initial suspicion of the husband.

All that stress and uncertainty can be avoided if a child of God is determined to remain faithful to his/her spouse.  Adultery in marriage usually lead to serious problems, it is a sin that easily lead to other sins and God is against it. The bible said God Himself will judge the adulterer.

Adultery, which is also called infidelity is the highest cause of divorce world-wide.  It leads to emotional pain, fight, separation and untimely death.  Careful children of God are very sensitive to friendships, play and jokes that seek to subtly lure them into relationship outside their marriage, because it brings a curse on the marriage.

These are the reason for this piece of advice targeted at young couples, who are learning to live together, love and appreciate one another as well as other people, including Single ladies and guys.  

It is important to say that both couple should make a vow of chastity with God, so that the Holy Ghost will help you each time strong temptations come.  Carelessness and sticking with old pals, lovers and acquaintances after marriage has been found to be the major causes of secret affairs in marriage. 

In addition to making a vow, the man and woman in marriage should the following behaviours.


1. Do not make any opposite sex outside your spouse ...your close confidant, with whom you discuss intimate matters. Any married person that discusses his/her family issues with friends and colleagues will sure destroy the marriage before long.

2. Avoid secret meetings with the opposite sex, and where it is necessary, go with your spouse.

3. Avoid unnecessary familiarity and play with friends and colleagues.  Stop asking friends very intimate questions about their relationship or spouse and discourage such questions politely.

4. Avoid unnecessary body contact and hugging and giving pecks after marriage - Keep your heart and body pure.

5. Avoid accusing your spouse in the presence of a third party - Friends and colleagues, because once they discover you are not happy in marriage, the mischievous ones among them will see it as an opportunity to show you fake love and care, the kind you are lacking at home.

6. If you must discuss your marital issue with a close brother in the Lord or Sister, Pastor, make sure the person is of your same sex.  Don't discuss with your Pastor, except on a counseling day, when their team is with them. 

7. Be proud of our spouse always, when he or she is there or not.  Let your friends and relatives know you love your spouse.  Say 'I love you' to our spouse always -Do you know why?  Love grows with nourishment.  If your nourish and appreciate your love affairs regularly, the faster it grows.

8. Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favours from the opposite sex.  Avoid free ride to and from the office by the same person every day. If the favour continue for long, intimacy could develop that could bring a fall, after all the man is not a father Christmas.

9. Don't lust for evil things in your heart. Trust in the Lord for your promotion and work hard.  Don't try to promote yourself by compromising your faith and marriage.

10. Never you think that the other man or woman is better than your spouse.  That is an error that promote adultery.

11. Direct all your sexual fantasy and emotions towards your spouse and no body else.  Be contempt with what is your own.

12. Men especially, should avoid turning back to re-examine a lady's appearance or beauty/figure as such act registers the picture in his memory, which the devil will use later to tempt him to fall.

13. Make God fearing people your friends.  A single sister with a single sister, married woman with married woman.  Married women should be careful in discussing her marriage with a divorcee.


Beloved, there is no temptation that you cannot overcome if you are determined. Ensure your sexual drive is moderated and effectively under your control, else...No amount of precaution will help you.

You should be in firm control of your body, and bring it under subjection to the word of God, otherwise the end-time spirit of seduction and lust could sweep the person away into avoidable error.

Married women, please be weary of mischievous men, who compliment women and tell them sweet nothing compliments in the office, and in the neighbourhood.  Gently ask them to compliment their own wife. 

Beloved, Jesus is coming back soon.  "Where will you spend eternity - In heaven or hell? This is the time to work-out your salvation.  Now is the acceptable time!

Repent and give your heart to Jesus. He will give you a new life, victory and eternal life.  Will you accept Him today?

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