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PARENTING IS AN OBLIGATION.........Things you should not do to your children

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Parents have a responsibility before God to bring up their child in the way of the Lord.  God expects us to be genuinely His children as parents, so that we can pass all the things He will teach us unto our children.  

It is a well known fact that mothers that dress skimpy have been known to buy such dresses for their children, not seeing anything wrong with skimpy dressing. If the parents do not fear God, it will take God's intervention for their children to know and fear God - Children copy their parents!

We are to be imitators of God, our Heavenly Father, and God aim is for us to conform to the image of Christ in everything.  The same for our children, so that they will grow in love for God, submitting to the lordship of Christ.  That our children grow in love for their neighbours as they love themselves.  

To see our kids grow up to love God with all their hearts, and to love others as they live daily by submitting their thoughts, words, and deeds to the Lord Jesus Christ is a task that should be uppermost in the heart of parents.

But many times, parents indulge in detrimental behaviors in the presence of their children, leaving a long-lasting effect on the child. It may not be intentional, but the damage is done. Once an evil seed has been sowed in the heart of the child, it becomes very difficult to erase.  Some mothers even expose their nakedness to their little children, which leaves the children imagining evil things from their youth.

Parents should prayerfully seek to bring your children to genuine conversion in Christ.  Be devoted to the things of God, speaking of His goodness all the time.  Studying your bible and praising Him daily. Pray for your children to receive the Lord in their youth etc Prayerfully do all these and they will follow you.

Bad Parenting Proper:
1. It includes not giving a child a good example to copy
2. Acts that pollute and corrupt a young child's mind
3. Exposing the child to danger - knowingly or unknowingly
4. Neglecting the child and not giving the child attention when necessary
5. Showing the child bad example that can mislead the child

The definition of bad parenting is not a single act of poor nurturing but rather a series of such actions that invariably harm the little one’s demeanor and psychology. A parent may feel guilty and will try to reconcile, but it often too late, the deed has been done and an evil seed has been sowed into the child memory.

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Mothers should call their daughters to zip their clothes - Not boys!

Surprisingly, many parents do not realize their folly since the deed was unintentional or perhaps they are too busy to learn to be an active parent. Below are pics of some attributes and actions that all sum up to bad parenting, which children of God must avoid for the moral and healthy growth of their wards.

Some noticeable Errors Mothers should avoid

 1. Don't carry your baby in your handbag - Mothers please!
2. Do not 'back' your baby and be dancing in a club, or 
3. Avoid doing your Yoga exercises with your baby on your chest or back
4. Do not give Alcohol to children its harmful!
5. Do not carry your baby in a Hanging position
6. Avoid carrying your child with one hand
7. Avoid kissing young boys deep - You could inflame their emotions
8. Don't allow your boys to touch your buttocks
9. Taking the children to a club - Bad, please avoid
10. Do not expose your nakedness to your younger ones.

11. Smoking is harmful habit - Why introduce it to your child?
 12. Give them attention, when they desire it - You never know what she has in mind.

By nature, children are self-centered and proud. They need encouragement to grow in humility and servanthood. Since as sinners, we’re all rebellious at heart, kids need to learn submission to proper authority as a part of godliness.

Beloved, Jesus is coming back soon.  "Where will you spend eternity - In heaven or hell"? This is the time to work-out your salvation.  Now is the acceptable time!

Repent and give your heart to Jesus. He will give you a new life, victory and eternal life.  Will you accept Him today?


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