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MARRYING A WRONG WIFE............Will keep you Longer in the "Wilderness" of Life

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I perceive that God has designed it that men and women who will serve Him should pass through different spiritual wilderness experiences. 

And the experience will be such that the man or woman can hardly forget in their life time.  It will remain indelible in their memory and life to the intent that it will for ever change their understanding of the Almighty God and His power to deliver. 

Brethren, only God can deliver a man from the death in the wilderness.  The Israelites encountered the Red sea and cried bitterly to God for Help. That the kind of danger you will find in the red sea.  Sometimes, a dangerous animal strays towards you in the wilderness to devour.

Wilderness experience of a child of God, especially those called for specific purposes in the kingdom could be very tough and daunting.  But in its toughness and near death situations, it is meant to draw us closer to God and teach us how to completely depend on God for victory in life.  For instance, it causes us to learn how to pray effectively.  Jonah was forced to observe a three days dried fasting in the belly of the fish before God instructed the fish to vomit him in the place of his assignment.

The bible said John the Baptist remained in the wilderness until the Word of the Lord came to him to appear in the midst of the people of God and start his assignment around Judea.  Wilderness experience will always teach perseverance, studying the word and acquiring spiritual power, it will teach you how to pray until victory is achieved.

The problem now is that the wilderness is full of enemies.  Even after crossing the Red sea, you have to contend with the Amelekites, the Perezites, The Jebusites, and the giants who have refused to let them go. One of such enemy confronting existing and upcoming ministers of God today is the error of marrying ladies sent to destroy them from the marine kingdom.

In this write up, we bring to our readers a true life story told by a Pastor, to highlight the challenges of destiny fulfilment when a child of God marries and embraces a marine agent girl, prepared by the devil to destroy him.  This is a tragedy because you have only brought home the enemy of your calling and soul. Whoever does so will certainly have stories of failure to tell.

This topic may not interest some people, but it is a reality and many men of God, sons and daughters of God are struggling under the bondage of the marine agent they married as husband or wife.  The marine kingdom and other kingdoms are real.

So, the story is to encourage those suffering under this yoke that there there is hope of their freedom and to the spinster and bachelors to be careful, who they marry.  The battle takes time because you can never imagine you are already in the belly of a fish like jonah.  Then with time and prayers, you become aware and then the battle for your freedom begins.

Finally, you will discover to your shock that your spouse, whom the devil is using to hinder you knows what he/she is doing. So, enjoy the piece.

These ladies are enemies of destiny prepared by Satan and his kingdom to stop the kingdom assignment of the prophet, Pastor or man of God. I have seen great prophets of God who see vision clearly and prophesy accurately, yet they are still struggling in ministry because the activities of the internal enemies.

The error is so grievous that when you marry the daughter of Satan, the devil has unfettered access to you. It becomes a tragedy that a man called by God to destroy the works of Satan, ends up marrying the daughter of Satan as his wife, such a Pastor will suffer long in the wilderness of life.

The choice of a life partner can be an icebreaker that could make or breaking the man. It can determine how far and successful the man will go in life. If you get it right, God applauds you with open heavens and blessings (Prov18:22), if otherwise,  the heaven closes over you and the consequences can be painful and frustrating.  

The reason for this blog is to expose the strategy of Satan in this area and warn young  and single Pastors and ministers to beware.  It is also to help those men of God who are suffering this problem in silence to know that deliverance is available through Jesus Christ.


Let me start by advising young men who are in love with a sister they intend to Marty to look beyond the beauty, but rather ask God to reveal the spiritual position of the lady and her parents to you before you propose her.

It is not enough for her to be intelligent, well educated and cultured. Beauty is not the first qualification for a woman of God, it is her love for God and her fear of the Lord.  When God reveals the family of the girl as lovers of God, then you add her beauty and other qualities as genuine. If this enquiry is not made or God simply decided not to answer you, then you don't have a bride yet.

To say that you love her so much as to ignore this simple spiritual enquiry is foolishness. If you become obsessed by her beauty and outward commitment to the things of God in your local church and ignore to enquire about her parents, don't be surprised if you discover later that your innocent-looking girl is the daughter of an occultic grand master, by which time, it is too late to make amends.

By the time you have married her, you know you have broken the hedge, get ready for battle, for the serpent will surely bite.  She will be a thorn on your flesh till God delivers you from their network.

This was how my 18years of fierce spiritual battle started. I was a young man with so much love for the things of God and highly committed in my local church. Though I knew I had a Call, it was not confirmed and I was not a Pastor yet. I loved righteousness and had no girlfriend before meeting her, but my spiritual understanding was low. I believed all things as the bible said we should. I never knew that you should test all spirit before you believe.

After three years in marriage without a baby and nothing seem to be working for me, I began to question everything around the marriage and my complaints did not go down well with my wife who contacted her family and the real battle began. This gentle looking lady began to deal wisely with me, frustrating in the spirit, every move I made for employment,  business  and in ministry for the next fifteen years.

I loved my wife and cannot imagine she could have a hand in my misfortune, talk less of her being responsible for spiritual roadblocks to hinder my progress.  She became more subtle and followed me closely into every business undertaking I ventured into, albeit to monitor my progress in that business and when they decide in their coven, they could collapse it


There are two categories of servants of God the enemy target with his daughters from the water. These are: 

1. People with oil of God on their head, who are not even aware. 
2. The second category are young and unmarried  Pastors, Ministers and Evangelist in churches who are getting ready to enter the ministry. 


The primary purpose of Satan and the agent sent on the assignment are:

1. The first plot is to hold the man down, divert his attention from the work of God into other areas of life and gradually kill his vision.
2. Take away his means of livelihood (Employment or business) and ensure money does not flow into his account from anywhere. When that happens, power has been wrestled from him at home.
3. Make sure his Ministry never see the light of day. If it does, do every thing possible to close it down. 
4. lf he insist on ministry, manipulate him to a fake Prophet, who will initiate him into the marine kingdom and give him fake power. 
5. When the above fails, then that Pastor is in for endless spiritual battles meant to punish him and if possible destroy him.


It is a living spiritual kingdom established by Satan when he was driven down from heaven. The marine Kingdom initiates and support every plan to turn man away from God in disobedience.

Because the spiritual controls the physical, they are more powerful than any natural man’s imaginations and thoughts.  They have spiritual beings - kings and queens presiding inside the water. On earth here, they have their agents everywhere, who gather every night to discuss the kingdom of Satan and how to make the people commit more sin and rebel against God to their destruction.

These agents live amongst us, attend churches, some even preach the gospel of Jesus Christ, but inwardly, they are agents doing the agenda of their master the devil. 

They have a spiritual eyes that can see into the spirit realm at any time to know what will happen and with these secrets, its easy for them to steal or divert the blessings of people. 

In the world today, the marine kingdom is responsible for 70 – 80% of the troubles of man.  From divorce, pornography, bizarre nakedness, prostitution are caused by marine spirits. Today, marine spirit tell people to walk naked on the beach. They have devised new methods  to initiate young people into prostitution through online registers. They tell people to sleep around, irrespective of what the word of God says. The aim is to ruin the youths and society in general. 

In the Western world, their members manufacture cosmetics, jewelries, bangles, cosmetics,  sex toys, artificial Virginia, cream for  enlargement of pennis, sexually motivating drugs and so on. 

There are several marine spirits (demons) which could possess a man and use him/her to achieve the purposes   of satan.  Some of these include:

1.Celibate marine 
2.Marine Jezebel
3.Marine witchcraft
4.Leviathan spirit

Let me discuss a little about some of these spirits.

Celibate marine spirit – These are spirit that operate in the lives of marine agents who are consecrated to the work of satan and to wickedness.  They have no interest in getting married, but if they get married, they do not want to have children. Their wives cannot enjoy the marriage and she will soon leave or get killed.   This spirit operate in the lives of most Territorial strongmen of Satan.

Marine Jezebel spirit – operate in both male and female. They are more active in their female members.  Such women are usually fashion conscious, rebellious and aggressive. They seek to control and dominate their husband and will not stop till they achieve their purpose.

Leviathan Spirit – This is a brutal marine spirit responsible for mass killing.  People possessed by this spirit are usually filled with suicide thoughts.  They walk alone when they are planning evil, so that no one will get to know and then try to discourage them. When you read that a boy shot 15 of his class mates, Leviathan spirit had possessed him.  This is the spirit that posses a young man and cause him to kill an unfaithful lover, her mother and brother all at once for the offense of the girl. 

Marine Witchcraft spirit – This is the main spirit that operate in the agents sent from the water as wives.  They operate like mother witches. They are subtle, yet deadly. They have the power to leave their body into the water (spirit) at any time to do evil.


The devil hates anyone who could be a threat to his kingdom. So, the plan to arrested an anointed servant of God, even before he enters the ministry is one of the strategic weapons of Satan against the Church.

The devil will present innocent looking ladies from the water to a young man committed to serving God, or to a young unmarried Pastor.  These young ladies operate with high level of secrecy, patience and deception.
They would normally have good education, appear well cultured, obedient and humble. They pretend to be born again to win the heart of the man and prepare the ground for his down-fall.  Majority of them also have wealthy family background. 

They come lovely at the beginning with the air of a spirit-filled born-again daughter of God who cannot hurt a fly. She would not be the flashy girl that wear trousers, or make-up excessively; No, she would present herself as that committed sister, a soul winner and a worthy labourer in the vineyard of the Lord, and the Pastor would unfortunately accept all these fake report as true. 

So, she is seen as an ideal wife for a man of God. The marriage is quickly arranged and consummated.  From my experience, 90% of these delicate marriages are made when the men are not deep in God, though they are born-again, so adequate spiritual investigation are not carried out.

The devil always plan it to be so and that's why it is important that you know your Purpose before marriage. If you know you are called to serve God, then you are very careful about the lady you take her hands in marriage. Purpose before marriage is very important and helpful.


1. When you discover that shortly after your marriage, things began to fall apart for you. Things that were easy before that time are no longer easy.

2. When you loose your means of livelihood shortly after your wedding, say within two years after your marriage.

3. When your wife does not like to have any of your relation living with you or around you.

4. When your wife find it easy to relate with men instead of women. She is comfortable with male friends in the office and in the compound as though there is nothing to worry about. You should be concerned.

5. When your wife joins you in every business endeavour you venture into, whether she understands the business or not, as though both of you are in competition

6. When your wife tells you she will not like to have more than  3(Three) children. She would normally have no reason for that decision, except to live a vibrant life.  Many of the Marine agents would stop at three, especially those called covenanted into the kingdom early in life and they are queens.

7. When there is barrenness in marriage for five or more years and it does not bother your wife and her family. 

8. When your effort to succeed in career or business is always doubted by your wife. She will join hands with you in the business, and within fews months, the business will begin to fluctuate and nose-dive without remedy.

9. When the businesses you do together with her fails always and then she will turn to blame you for the failure.  Also, when your wife is happy to be the "bread winner".  When she believes or acts as though her income is sufficient for the family - then the man is in real trouble!

10. When your wife keep asking whether your new ideas and efforts will yield any positive result.  They will always cast aspersion on your efforts subtly, even as they will decree in the spirit that none of your efforts should succeed.

11. When your wife suggests you should focus on business or career instead of ministry, especially when you have confirmed by the mouth of several men of God and Prophets that you have a call of God upon your life.

12. When in ministry and your wife is continually doubting your Calling just because the church has only few members.

13. When you find it very difficult to obtain help from known and unknown sources. When favour  is completely hard to come bye.  Usually, she will come in to support you financially and she is happy to do that. When you see such in your marriage, you are in trouble as the man of the house or the Pastor or Prophet. You are marrying a woman, who is stronger than you in the spirit.  You must arise and fight the spiritual battle of your life, else.....your destiny will be swallowed by the serpent in the house, God forbid it for you.

14. When you are in ministry and your wife continues in her old church.


This is a serious problem facing Pastors and vibrant men of God today. It is capable of wasting the entire effort of the Pastor and send him to hell fire. These women are destiny hunters who SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO HAVE THEIR WAY. We should not allow agents of Satan have their way in our lives and families.

The battle usually takes years before victory begins to show forth.  You have to resist the conditions the devil will want to place you.  In real life, you the child of God will want to love your wife as the bible has instructed us, not knowing that you are marrying the enemy of your calling and destiny.

One of the things the Lord would always do for His servants is HELP.  When the battles becomes tough, when family and friends have deserted you, thinking you are a failure, the Lord will start taking the evil men fighting you AWAY, one after the other, so you can have peace.

The Lord arrested the arrow head of the satanic network fighting me and the battle changed, became tougher. When the Pastor is about to be completely delivered, the battle becomes very brutal, the devil increases the powers of his agents to frighten you, but with God, you are a victor. 

Thank God for our Saviour Jesus Christ who conquered Satan and handed victory to us.  After eighteen years, God turned around my captivity, opened my eyes to see in the realm of the spirit the people fighting and has continued to guide me on the way to total freedom and enthronement.

Some people desert will be their husbands, wife or even children, other people could be something entirely different.  The most important factor to freedom from the troubles of life on your way to destiny fulfilment is God and believing on His Word and applying it.

The Lord God Almighty will give you the keys to your freedom as you commit your whole life to Him, believe His Word obey and apply them.  

Beloved, Jesus is coming back soon.  "Where will you spend eternity - In heaven or hell? This is the time to work-out your salvation.  Now is the acceptable time!

Repent and give your heart to Jesus. He will give you a new life, victory and eternal life.  Will you accept Him today?


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