SIGNS THAT YOU MARRIED AN ENEMY.......... Of your 'Calling' - For Ministers!


  • The devil hates anyone who could be a threat to his kingdom. 
  • There is a well organized plan to identify and arrest anointed servants of God and cause them to renounce God
  • The plans starts the moment they sight the star and glory of such a child.
  • Women are used to divert or bring down such a 'Star'
  • It is one of the most potent strategic of Satan against the Church of Christ.

Every Pastor or Minister of God needs a God fearing daughter of Zion to succeed in ministry.  You don't need to ask why?  The woman behind a man of God will determine what kind of man of God he would be.  

Her prayers or lack of it goes will also affect the husband physically and spiritually. One of the ways to know you may have married a wrong woman is...the emergence of persistent spiritual battles after marriage. 

Spiritual battles

Some people loss their lucrative jobs, contracts and other opportunities immediately after marriage and several years later they have not found another one. That is a sign you may not have found a 'good' wife, and so there is no immediate release of favour from the Lord. This may not be the case all the time, but when you do not see the favour the Lord promised a man that found a wife, you should make inquiries as to why there is no favour.

It is therefore a tragedy of destiny, for a man of God to marry the daughter of Satan, prepared in the spirit by the devil and his agents to hinder the work of God and if possible convert men of God to men of Satan.  This is what is happening today around the world.

Destiny Hunters on assignment
Some men of God has mistakenly married women assigned to bring their calling down.  These ladies are usually innocent looking, highly deceptive, patient and secretive.  These innocent looking girls will end up controlling the 'big' man in the days to follow.

They would normally have good education, appear well cultured, obedient and humble. But, behind this facade f deception, is a well determined woman on assignment to hinder the assignment of the man of God and if possible close down his ministry.  Brethren, many Pastors that started well with the Lord are today on the side of the devil.  Their wives have converted them and of course the fire has gone from them.

Highly deceptive
They come lovely at the beginning with the air of a spirit-filled born-again Sister who cannot hurt a fly. They pretend to be born again to win the heart of the man and prepare the ground for his down-fall.  Majority of them also have wealthy family background. 

She would not be the flashy girl that wear trousers, or make-up excessively; No, she would present herself as that committed sister, a soul winner and a worthy labourer in the vineyard of the Lord, and the Pastor would unfortunately accept all these fake report as true. 

So, she is seen as an ideal wife for a man of God. The marriage is quickly arranged and consummated.  From my experience, 90% of these delicate marriages are made when the men are not deep in God, though they are born-again, so adequate spiritual investigation was not carried out.

If you know you are called to serve God, then you MUST be very careful about the lady you seek her hands in marriage. 

Signs of bondage of a strange Wife

1. When you discover that shortly after your marriage, things began to fall apart for you. Things that were easy before that time are no longer easy.

2. When you loose your means of livelihood shortly after your wedding, say within two years after your marriage.

3. When your wife does not like to have any of your relation living with you or around you.

4. When your wife find it easy to relate with men instead of women. She is comfortable with male friends in the office and in the compound as though there is nothing to worry about. You should be concerned.

5. When your wife joins you in every business endeavour you venture into, whether she understands the business or not, as though both of you are in competition

6. When your wife tells you she will not like to have more than  3(Three) children. She would normally have no reason for that decision, except to live a vibrant life.  Many of the Marine agents would stop at three, especially those called covenanted into the kingdom early in life and they are queens.

8. When there is barrenness in marriage for five or more years and it does not bother your wife and her family. 

9. When your effort to succeed in career or business is always doubted by your wife. She will join hands with you in the business, and within fews months, the business will begin to fluctuate and nose-dive without remedy.

10. When the businesses you do together with her fails always and then she will turn to blame you for the failure.  Also, when your wife is happy to be the "bread winner".  When she believes or acts as though her income is sufficient for the family - then the man is in real trouble!

13. When your wife keep asking whether your new ideas and efforts will yield any positive result.  They will always cast aspersion on your efforts subtly, even as they will decree in the spirit that none of your efforts should succeed.

14. When your wife suggests you should focus on business or career instead of ministry, especially when you have confirmed by the mouth of several men of God and Prophets that you have a call of God upon your life.

15. When in ministry and your wife is continually doubting your Calling just because the church has only few members.

16. When you find it very difficult to obtain help from known and unknown sources. When favour  is completely hard to come bye.  Usually, she will come in to support you financially and she is happy to do that. When you see such in your marriage, you are in trouble as the man of the house or the Pastor or Prophet. You are marrying a woman, who is stronger than you in the spirit.  You must arise and fight the spiritual battle of your life, else.....your destiny will be swallowed by the serpent in the house, God forbid it for you.

17. When you are in ministry and your wife continues in her old church.

Destiny Recovery
This is a serious problem facing Pastors and vibrant men of God today. It is capable of wasting the entire effort of the Pastor and send him to hell fire. These women are destiny hunters who SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO HAVE THEIR WAY. We should not allow agents of Satan have their way in our lives and families.

The battle usually takes years before victory begins to show forth.  You have to resist the conditions the devil will want to place you.  In real life, you the child of God will want to love your wife as the bible has instructed us, not knowing that you are marrying the enemy of your calling and destiny.

One of the things the Lord would always do for His servants is HELP.  When the battles becomes tough, when family and friends have deserted you, thinking you are a failure, the Lord will start taking the evil men fighting you AWAY, one after the other, so you can have peace.

Remain steadfast in faith and see the glory of God
When the Lord arrests the arrow head of the satanic network fighting you, the battle will change. When the Pastor is about to be completely delivered, the battle becomes very brutal, the devil increases the powers of his agents to frighten you, but with God, you are a victor. 

Thank God for our Saviour Jesus Christ who conquered Satan and handed victory to us.  Some people's desert will be their husbands, wife or even children, other people could be something entirely different.  The most important factor to freedom from the troubles of life is God and believing on His Word and applying it.

Nature of Spiritual warfare
In spiritual warfare, we may know the person troubling us, his family and everything about him, but that man is not our problem , the devil is only using him, because he is close to us.  The devil could use any other person that is close to us too. So, as believers, we do not take spiritual battle personal, thinking our friend or brother is the enemy, NO! He is not the enemy, the devil is the enemy. 

If you miss this point, then your spiritual battles will be a painful and agonizing experience. The devil is the enemy, and so our prayer should be directed at the enemy and for God to frustrate him and the agent he is using to trouble us. This is why the bible say...Though we walk in the flesh, but our battle is not canal.  We are not fighting the flesh or according to the flesh.  We do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.  

Fight not canal
Our fight is not canal, so believers must put on the whole armor of God, that they may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.  Your fight will be canal, if you take it personal and confront the person and fight physically, we should instead pray that God will frustrate them. 

Spiritual warfare involves a lot of commanding the evil spirit to leave, and so we must ourselves submit to God. If we submit to God and resist the devil, he will flee from us, otherwise the demons will resist the command  and in other cases, challenge the Believer. If you yield yourself to the Lord, He will cause your enemies that come against you to flee.  The scriptures says “The Lord will cause your enemies who rise against you to be defeated before you. They shall come out against you one way and flee before you seven ways.  The Lord will cause wicked plots against the righteous to backfire to the sender.  

The bible says the wicked draw the sword and bend their bows to bring down the poor and needy, to slay those whose way is upright; their sword shall enter their own heart, and their bows shall be broken. Better is the little that the righteous has than the abundance of many wicked.

The Lord will make sure that No weapon that is fashioned against you shall succeed, and you shall confute every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord and their vindication from me, declares the Lord.”

Remember King David, a bold and courageous man, who did not loose a single battle has good news for believers.  He says to them in Psalms 37:  "Fret not yourself because of evildoers; be not envious of wrongdoers! For they will soon fade like the grass and wither like the green herb. Trust in the Lord, and do good; dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness. Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will bring your plans to pass".


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