GODLY HUSBAND......Learn how to live a Spirit filled life

O' Lord, give me a Godly Husband!

1. Do you have the Holy Spirit working in your life?

2. Do you know the realities of your Salvation
3. Are you walking according to the guidance of the Holy Spirit or
4. Just please yourself and doing what you want to do?


Sisters, if you are ready for marriage and desire among other things, a godly man that will love and cherish you as you are, I counsel you to take the under listed advice seriously.  I pray you will find them do-able.  

Every born again sister, ready for marriage should pray for a godly man, trust the Lord for answers, then go about working for God in the Church happily. I mean that in your local group, re-double your effort in serving the Lord joyfully.  Permit no pressure or murmuring.  If the answer tarries, know the godly man will be a high-class man.  I join my faith, with yours and declare that the Lord will put a smile on your face shortly.

I need you to understand that apart from the Church, your place of work or business is another place where you could meet your future husband, so be diligent and friendly at work or business, without any pressure whatsoever.  Your future husband will not be far from the place you go frequently, so make sure you are going to the right places, and doing the right things.  Things that are praiseworthy, things that add value to your life or the life of other people, for therein you may find your husband.  

But, If you frequent the clubs, you should be careful, otherwise one day, you will find a man from there who will pretend he loves you, without knowing that he is a drunk, married with three or four children in the village.  By the time you realize you are dealing with a married man, I pray he would not have swindled your hard-earned money away.  Go to the right places, and do productive things.

There are many men, but only a few are husband materials.  Only a few are matured, born again and ready to abandon everything else and focus on one woman all the days of their lives.  Sisters should be born again and spirit-filled, before entering into marriage.

Put God first:  The truth is that if God is not the first person in your life, your life as a child of God will never be colourful.  Spend quality time daily on the word, applying what you learned to your daily life and praying in faith. Pray for the kind of man you can love and cope with.  You are not a car that any man can drive.
There is somebody somewhere that is created for you or that will willingly love and appreciate you - for who you are.  Your better half is somewhere and only God can tell you where he is. Don’t think that anybody can marry and live happily with you NO!  This is why your prayer and seed for the right man is an investment into your future and joy.

Spend quality time with God daily and meditate on things that will please God. Think of holiness, soul-winning, righteousness etc.  The devil will come to tell you that your answer is delayed or will not come, shout him down!  Continue to sing praises unto God daily, He will arise for your help and suddenly, the reproach a being single will be lifted off your neck in Jesus name.


1. Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving. For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.

2. Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

3. See to it that you operate in divine love and wisdom always, and if you lack wisdom, ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.  Husband and wife should see to it that they agree always...“Can two walk together, unless they have agreed to meet? - Amos 3:3  

4. The men must drink water from your own cistern, flowing water from your own well. Concentrate all your love and affection on your wife and no one else, why should your springs be scattered abroad, streams of water in the streets? Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love. 

5. The man must, therefore, leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. You must rent your own apartment to start a new family with your wife, even if your parents are living in a luxurious mansion.  This physical separation is physical and not spiritual and by no means does it discharge the man from taking care of his parents as the Lord commanded.

6. Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives when they see your respectful and pure conduct. 

7. Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewellery, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands.

8. Remember you are his helper and wife. God created you as a helper fit for your husband, make you you are fit for him.  Wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives.

9. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 

10. The  husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.

11. Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. 

12. A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.   

13. Husband and the wife should keep their marriage honourable. Let marriage be held in honour among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. God, Himself will judge and punish adulterers.  The husband and wife should remember they were bought with a price, the blood of Jesus Christ, and so they should glorify God in their body.

SPIRITUAL CLEANSING - Through Prayer, Deliverance:

Unclean dreams: - Dreams of sexual intercourse indicate the activities of marine spirit. It means you are consciously or unconsciously married to a spirit being. when you now have children in the dream, it confirms the spiritual marriage. If in your dream, you see all kinds of sexual perversion, it means the demon want to pervert you deeper into immorality.  Take authority over the demonic by the Blood of Jesus

Filthy thoughts: - These spirits are responsible for filthy thought that people harbour.  Pray against marine spirits and demons. Break every link with them, destroy every evil picture around you.

Difficulty in keeping relationships: - You find it difficult to keep a relationship for a long time. You think one man cannot satisfy your sexual urge or you like every tall man you see. Some men cannot take their eyes off fat ladies, it is bondage.  You need to break out of it through prayer and fasting.  Do this deliverance prayer before marriage.

Difficulty in finding a spouse: - One of the purposes of the activities of marine spirit is to stop their victim from getting married here on the earth. They claim ownership of their victim as their wives or husbands. These wicked spirit force ladies to have children from different men, but would never allow any of the men to marry her. Pray and fast using scriptures

Stay true to the Word - Thank God for our Saviour Jesus Christ who conquered Satan and handed victory to us.  Some people 'desert' will be their husbands, wife or even children, other people could be something 


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